Sir Bob:Sir Bob: I want to know how the game is played?
Sir Jhon: Here’s the way the game is played. When a woman
wants something, she expects the man to know what it is without her telling
him. Women want men to solve their problems. Honestly, that’s the way the game
has been played for thousands of years.
This little game of the sexes worked so long as boys and
girls talked to each other long before they become men and woman. They have to
be involved in and know about each other’s lives long before them hooking up to
have sex.
Part of the traditional arrangement included preteen boys
(little brothers) finding out teenage girls (big sisters) and mother, aunts still got spanked by their parents or husbands
. Boys might hear their sisters, mom,aunts beg, plead, or promise to be good
before submitted to a spanking. Then, after a good cry over the parent’s or
husband’s knee, they would see even
bossy big sisters, mom and aunts did what their parents/Husbands said and were
a whole lot easier to live with.
For the most part old days, boys seen a girl have to bring her dad or husband the hairbrush or be sent to cut a switch and
soak in salt.. As a boy , I certainly
have an idea that mothers react a lot like a little girl when they get their
bare bottom spanked with a hairbrush or birch . We used to know that, just like
little girls, a spanked woman does exactly what her “Daddy” tells her to do
afterwards. Seating trouble after spanking night was never hidden in our home
Instead, we as a boy then were fed a steady visual diet
of men having or wanting to have sex with women. At the same time, in their
relationships with women, men on television and in the movies are often
portrayed either evil or weak. One message was there that, responsible men hit women and correct and connect with
love and bonds. At the same time, women often tell men what to do. Now, while
this form of entertainment may attract women viewer to whom advertisers can sell
whatever, it does tell men how to handle
a difficult woman in real life.
As a result, it is quite common for a real life woman
these days to have to tell her lover- her Master that it’s okay to give her
bare ass a good hard slap once as and when she cross the line of discipline.
It’s good for the woman. It’s good for the man. It’s good for her relationship
with the man.
A woman these days may also have to tell a man that there
are times when her bottom needs more than one good smack. She needs a whole
bunch of smacks, on after the other so she can feel better afterwards and be
more pleasant to be round afterwards.
Only a woman can’t just tell a man about these things
using girl terms. For example, the word “punishing” is girl-talk. Typically, if
a girl says, “Dad punished me,” she doesn’t mean her Dad grounded her. It
usually translates into something like “My Dad beat my butt with a ______.” If
one mother says it to Dad, “You need to punish her,” it’s a polite way of
saying, “You need to spank your daughter’s bare bottom with hairbrush or belt
until she learns to behave herself!”
As an “experts”
claim, girls still get spanked after they start wearing bras and having their
periods. Not only that, unlike boys, girls don’t get to old for to spank. That
means mothers was well as daughters can be spanked. It is our lifestyle that we
live in a naturalist way in this community and free to stay nude as a whole,
Men needs to understand that women don’t resent being
spanked.Women are built physically and psychologically to relish a good “ass
whipping” every now and then. Also, as the previous sentences suggests, don’t
be afraid to “talk dirty” to your boyfriend about spanking…. I should suggest
to women
More importantly your Master needs to know what his
spanking you will do for HIM. One code word women use in describing what
spanking does to them is “submissive.” However, inexperienced men often don’t
understand what that word means to a woman. Again, this means you have to get
specific. For example, you might tell your Master that spanking you is his
short-cut to a “blow job.”
Quite likely, in work place as Laura is a high dominance woman. That often means she
become bitchy if not spanked on a regular basis. Because she needs rules, she
might also be high maintenance. It may also be a sign of immaturity. In other
words, she may need to be treated more like a teenage daughter than a wife or
the position she hold in her professional arena. If this is the case, admit it….
And Laura do admit ---- I appreciate her willingness to understand her place
and need.
Adding a third person to a two-person relationship can
really be relishing things. Among other things, it can create a love triangle
that turns two friends into more
friendly, but also the submissive can
enjoy both of them if developed such
relationship with care and attention in line of the need of the woman.
At the same time, spanking promotes stability through
love and respect. A woman will respect a man for spanking her when she requires
it. While she may not love him as a result, she will respect him for putting
her over his knee when she knows it needs to be done. The love part comes in
when she is attracted to him before he does it.
Conversely, women are biologically programmed to “lose
interest” in weak and timid men because these attributes do little to promote
human survival. Along with a woman’s initial haughtiness towards a man, the
basic test for a woman is predicated on a belief that the man caring enough to
tame her also cares enough to protect her.
Getting spanked signalled a man’s commitment. Quite
often, if a young man really spanked a young woman’s her bare bottom when she
needed it, led to marriage.
Traditionally, women expected men to know what to do.
This worked back when part of learning about the birds and the bees, as sex
education used to be known, included discovering that sometimes a badly behaved
grown women got her bare bottom spanked with a man’s hand or sometimes even
with his belt. It was probably the biggest open secret on the planet before the
1970s. That is no longer the case.
Even though I grew up in an era when spanking was
perfectly acceptable, most of what I learned about spanking came from women.
Much the same is true today. Only women have to tell men more than was the case
a few generations ago…… women are always been teaching men how to
handle them.
Laura Jhon: As a woman I understand the goal of feminism
to some point, but today it’s no longer just equality… Equality was the
selling point. in many cases, neutering was feminism’s intent.
Feminism at its core is about women having equal rights
under the law, equal pay for equal work, etc. While letting my man be in charge
is my personal preference, I believe strongly that it should be a choice. I
know plenty of women who wouldn’t be happy with that and plenty of submissive
men who d I have a very high intelligence quotient and I’ve accomplished plenty
on my own. I have a dominant personality that I present to the world and I am
physically tough as well. Still, I desire a man who is intelligent (I dream of
one intellectually superior to me, but I know that’s unrealistic), kind,
honest, responsible, physically more powerful than I am, and completely in
charge. I want him to want to be in control and to want to take care of me. To
me, this feels natural. It doesn’t feel natural to everyone though. There are
other women who desire a man to treat them as an equal in every aspect. There
are women who wish to be in control in the bedroom. There are women who don’t
want to be committed to a man at all and they should not be punished with a
life of low wages and misery for their choice to stay single. Feminism isn’t
about insisting there are no differences between men and women or that men are
bad. Feminism is about allowing us all to have the same rights and privileges,
including the choice to be in the kind of relationship we want, or no
relationship at all.o not want any power in their romantic relationships.
All of that said, I just wish we could be more open with
our desires and not looked down upon for wanting that M/f relationship…. I am
such a women who don’t WANT to be in
control, to express and act on their desires,,,, need push , need punishment
Clara : Being a women and with my experience as a school
teacher by profession and at large as a women by nature , I recommend women
spanking as spanking tends to remain effective with girls because estrogen
doesn’t produce any significant changes in how teenage girls responded to being
disciplined over the parental knee. While teenage daughters still dread it,
they nonetheless are more likely the Although this fact of life created a double
standard resulting in older daughters being spanked far more often and at a
later age than sons, it was once so well understood a few generations ago the
parents continued to legally spank their daughters until the approximate age
when most young women married. As a result, especially when large numbers of
young women married right after high school in the late 1950s, these girls
sometimes moved from being spanked by their parents to being spanked by their
husbands.n their male peers to submit to it and learn the desired lesson from
it….. Which is true about my mom and myself equally. My Dad presented tye cane
case on the day of my marriage in a public event where he announced that the
same he use on my mom since they get in relationship.
By the way, even when I and Sir Jerry began dating in the
1970s, was so well accepted to we girls . One big reason, of course, is young
women were already well acquainted with the customary disciplinary drill of the
day... As we used to learn from our Aunts, Mom and elder sisters ….. Disciplinary spankings
of young women by teachers, fathers, boyfriends, or husbands were far more
common than is the case today.
Remember age is not a significant factor in determining
the effectiveness of an age appropriate spanking at any stage in a female’s
life.
For both my wife and her mother and even my own mom, life
was a balancing act. Outside the home, they were independent and successful.
Nevertheless, all three were submissive
to their husbands or HOH at home
irrespective of age. As a result, these three women remained married to their
first husbands. At the same time, neither my wife nor her mother or my mother
would be considered an ideal feminist role model…… biological forces
are still at work in the lives of many women. It just seems that nature is
often at odds with nurture these days.
Witnessing a haughty woman losing her composure over his
lap can be thoroughly empowering.
At the same time, the woman being disciplined is
undergoing an equally transformative experience as she feels the man take
control of her mind by applying genuine pain to her bottom. While she may not
love the man at that particular moment, she most certainly learning to respect
his natural authority over her as the pain and embarrassment take their toll on
her vane notions of superiority.
The moment that both the man and the woman realize that
the man controls the woman over his lap can go along way towards preserving
their relationship. For while a woman can easily fall out of love with a weak
man, the same woman with a richly deserved sore bottom does not so easily stop
respecting him…….. Disciplinary spanking works best as a problem solving mechanism. In
many ways, it is like a specialized tool in a workshop.
By nature, some women like Laura require being spanked more often than others.
Some even desire it… see my mom, at her 50+ she still now wets on the word of spanking . Nevertheless,
in most marriages, its use is best reserved for resolving thorny, sometimes
otherwise unresolvable, issues that threaten the stability of the relationship.
When my wife Laura and I began dating, she knew she still needed
to be put over a man’s knee and spanked as if she was his daughter. She was
also aware that she would require being spanked even after she married.
Laura : It is also worth remembering that me and Jhon, sorry , Sir Jhon began dating at in
an era when young women could be legally spanked by their parents until their
21st birthday. It was also at a time when the spanking of young women was still
widely accepted. My father firmly
believed in it! Nor was he alone in that belief.
Sir Jhon: Bob, you know,Spankings change the dynamics of relationships. Usually, it’s for the
better. The wife becomes calmer. She respects her husband more. There is a
realization that domestic tranquility is attainable.
Laura Jhon: True, very true! I really feel the
need for him to spank me more consistently in response to my behaviors or attitudes
that come up from time to time. I have this feeling it would totally deepen my
love and submission to him and would help me reach goals…..it help me meet any
goals he wants to set for me.
Sir Jhon: Here’s the way the game is played. When a woman
wants something, she expects the man to know what it is without her telling
him. Women want men to solve their problems. Honestly, that’s the way the game
has been played for thousands of years.
This little game of the sexes worked so long as boys and
girls talked to each other long before they become men and woman. They have to
be involved in and know about each other’s lives long before them hooking up to
have sex.
Part of the traditional arrangement included preteen boys
(little brothers) finding out teenage girls (big sisters) and mother, aunts still got spanked by their parents or husbands
. Boys might hear their sisters, mom,aunts beg, plead, or promise to be good
before submitted to a spanking. Then, after a good cry over the parent’s or
husband’s knee, they would see even
bossy big sisters, mom and aunts did what their parents/Husbands said and were
a whole lot easier to live with.
For the most part old days, boys seen a girl have to bring her dad or husband the hairbrush or be sent to cut a switch and
soak in salt.. As a boy , I certainly
have an idea that mothers react a lot like a little girl when they get their
bare bottom spanked with a hairbrush or birch . We used to know that, just like
little girls, a spanked woman does exactly what her “Daddy” tells her to do
afterwards. Seating trouble after spanking night was never hidden in our home
Instead, we as a boy then were fed a steady visual diet
of men having or wanting to have sex with women. At the same time, in their
relationships with women, men on television and in the movies are often
portrayed either evil or weak. One message was there that, responsible men hit women and correct and connect with
love and bonds. At the same time, women often tell men what to do. Now, while
this form of entertainment may attract women viewer to whom advertisers can sell
whatever, it does tell men how to handle
a difficult woman in real life.
As a result, it is quite common for a real life woman
these days to have to tell her lover- her Master that it’s okay to give her
bare ass a good hard slap once as and when she cross the line of discipline.
It’s good for the woman. It’s good for the man. It’s good for her relationship
with the man.
A woman these days may also have to tell a man that there
are times when her bottom needs more than one good smack. She needs a whole
bunch of smacks, on after the other so she can feel better afterwards and be
more pleasant to be round afterwards.
Only a woman can’t just tell a man about these things
using girl terms. For example, the word “punishing” is girl-talk. Typically, if
a girl says, “Dad punished me,” she doesn’t mean her Dad grounded her. It
usually translates into something like “My Dad beat my butt with a ______.” If
one mother says it to Dad, “You need to punish her,” it’s a polite way of
saying, “You need to spank your daughter’s bare bottom with hairbrush or belt
until she learns to behave herself!”
As an “experts”
claim, girls still get spanked after they start wearing bras and having their
periods. Not only that, unlike boys, girls don’t get to old for to spank. That
means mothers was well as daughters can be spanked. It is our lifestyle that we
live in a naturalist way in this community and free to stay nude as a whole,
Men needs to understand that women don’t resent being
spanked.Women are built physically and psychologically to relish a good “ass
whipping” every now and then. Also, as the previous sentences suggests, don’t
be afraid to “talk dirty” to your boyfriend about spanking…. I should suggest
to women
More importantly your Master needs to know what his
spanking you will do for HIM. One code word women use in describing what
spanking does to them is “submissive.” However, inexperienced men often don’t
understand what that word means to a woman. Again, this means you have to get
specific. For example, you might tell your Master that spanking you is his
short-cut to a “blow job.”
Quite likely, in work place as Laura is a high dominance woman. That often means she
become bitchy if not spanked on a regular basis. Because she needs rules, she
might also be high maintenance. It may also be a sign of immaturity. In other
words, she may need to be treated more like a teenage daughter than a wife or
the position she hold in her professional arena. If this is the case, admit it….
And Laura do admit ---- I appreciate her willingness to understand her place
and need.
Adding a third person to a two-person relationship can
really be relishing things. Among other things, it can create a love triangle
that turns two friends into more
friendly, but also the submissive can
enjoy both of them if developed such
relationship with care and attention in line of the need of the woman.
At the same time, spanking promotes stability through
love and respect. A woman will respect a man for spanking her when she requires
it. While she may not love him as a result, she will respect him for putting
her over his knee when she knows it needs to be done. The love part comes in
when she is attracted to him before he does it.
Conversely, women are biologically programmed to “lose
interest” in weak and timid men because these attributes do little to promote
human survival. Along with a woman’s initial haughtiness towards a man, the
basic test for a woman is predicated on a belief that the man caring enough to
tame her also cares enough to protect her.
Getting spanked signalled a man’s commitment. Quite
often, if a young man really spanked a young woman’s her bare bottom when she
needed it, led to marriage.
Traditionally, women expected men to know what to do.
This worked back when part of learning about the birds and the bees, as sex
education used to be known, included discovering that sometimes a badly behaved
grown women got her bare bottom spanked with a man’s hand or sometimes even
with his belt. It was probably the biggest open secret on the planet before the
1970s. That is no longer the case.
Even though I grew up in an era when spanking was
perfectly acceptable, most of what I learned about spanking came from women.
Much the same is true today. Only women have to tell men more than was the case
a few generations ago…… women are always been teaching men how to
handle them.
Laura Jhon: As a woman I understand the goal of feminism
to some point, but today it’s no longer just equality… Equality was the
selling point. in many cases, neutering was feminism’s intent.
Feminism at its core is about women having equal rights
under the law, equal pay for equal work, etc. While letting my man be in charge
is my personal preference, I believe strongly that it should be a choice. I
know plenty of women who wouldn’t be happy with that and plenty of submissive
men who d I have a very high intelligence quotient and I’ve accomplished plenty
on my own. I have a dominant personality that I present to the world and I am
physically tough as well. Still, I desire a man who is intelligent (I dream of
one intellectually superior to me, but I know that’s unrealistic), kind,
honest, responsible, physically more powerful than I am, and completely in
charge. I want him to want to be in control and to want to take care of me. To
me, this feels natural. It doesn’t feel natural to everyone though. There are
other women who desire a man to treat them as an equal in every aspect. There
are women who wish to be in control in the bedroom. There are women who don’t
want to be committed to a man at all and they should not be punished with a
life of low wages and misery for their choice to stay single. Feminism isn’t
about insisting there are no differences between men and women or that men are
bad. Feminism is about allowing us all to have the same rights and privileges,
including the choice to be in the kind of relationship we want, or no
relationship at all.o not want any power in their romantic relationships.
All of that said, I just wish we could be more open with
our desires and not looked down upon for wanting that M/f relationship…. I am
such a women who don’t WANT to be in
control, to express and act on their desires,,,, need push , need punishment
Clara : being a women and with my experience as a school
teacher by profession and at large as a women by nature , I recommend women
spanking as spanking tends to remain effective with girls because estrogen
doesn’t produce any significant changes in how teenage girls responded to being
disciplined over the parental knee. While teenage daughters still dread it,
they nonetheless are more likely tha Although this fact of life created a double
standard resulting in older daughters being spanked far more often and at a
later age than sons, it was once so well understood a few generations ago the
parents continued to legally spank their daughters until the approximate age
when most young women married. As a result, especially when large numbers of
young women married right after high school in the late 1950s, these girls
sometimes moved from being spanked by their parents to being spanked by their
husbands.n their male peers to submit to it and learn the desired lesson from
it….. Which is true about my mom and myself equally. My Dad presented tye cane
case on the day of my marriage in a public event where he announced that the
same he use on my mom since they get in relationship.
By the way, even when I and Sir Jerry began dating in the
1970s, was so well accepted to we girls . One big reason, of course, is young
women were already well acquainted with the customary disciplinary drill of the
day... As we used to learn from our Aunts, Mom and elder sisters ….. Disciplinary spankings
of young women by teachers, fathers, boyfriends, or husbands were far more
common than is the case today.
Remember age is not a significant factor in determining
the effectiveness of an age appropriate spanking at any stage in a female’s
life.
For both my wife and her mother and even my own mom, life
was a balancing act. Outside the home, they were independent and successful.
Nevertheless, all three were submissive
to their husbands or HOH at home
irrespective of age. As a result, these three women remained married to their
first husbands. At the same time, neither my wife nor her mother or my mother
would be considered an ideal feminist role model…… biological forces
are still at work in the lives of many women. It just seems that nature is
often at odds with nurture these days.
Witnessing a haughty woman losing her composure over his
lap can be thoroughly empowering.
At the same time, the woman being disciplined is
undergoing an equally transformative experience as she feels the man take
control of her mind by applying genuine pain to her bottom. While she may not
love the man at that particular moment, she most certainly learning to respect
his natural authority over her as the pain and embarrassment take their toll on
her vane notions of superiority.
The moment that both the man and the woman realize that
the man controls the woman over his lap can go along way towards preserving
their relationship. For while a woman can easily fall out of love with a weak
man, the same woman with a richly deserved sore bottom does not so easily stop
respecting him…….. Disciplinary spanking works best as a problem solving mechanism. In
many ways, it is like a specialized tool in a workshop.
By nature, some women like Laura require being spanked more often than others.
Some even desire it… see my mom, at her 50+ she still now wets on the word of spanking . Nevertheless,
in most marriages, its use is best reserved for resolving thorny, sometimes
otherwise unresolvable, issues that threaten the stability of the relationship.
When my wife Laura and I began dating, she knew she still needed
to be put over a man’s knee and spanked as if she was his daughter. She was
also aware that she would require being spanked even after she married.
Laura : It is also worth remembering that me and Jhon, sorry , Sir Jhon began dating at in
an era when young women could be legally spanked by their parents until their
21st birthday. It was also at a time when the spanking of young women was still
widely accepted. My father firmly
believed in it! Nor was he alone in that belief.
Sir Jhon: Bob, you know,Spankings change the dynamics of relationships. Usually, it’s for the
better. The wife becomes calmer. She respects her husband more. There is a
realization that domestic tranquility is attainable.
Laura Jhon: True, very true! I really feel the
need for him to spank me more consistently in response to my behaviors or attitudes
that come up from time to time. I have this feeling it would totally deepen my
love and submission to him and would help me reach goals…..it help me meet any
goals he wants to set for me.
