Submit to your Master
I realise how hard this situation can
be, your newly discovered submissiveness is so energising and powerfully
rewarding that the thought of not being able to fulfill it is almost too much
to bear.
Although
some girls are more naturally submissive than others, submissiveness is a
quality which can be developed through practice, discipline and training, under
the guidance of someone with the specialised knowledge of what is required. It
may be helpful to think of the development of a submissive as going through a
series of stages.
KNEEL
provide that training – what actually the social SLUT SCHOOL of HALLELUJAH. The
respective Mothers are here joined their respective daughters as a lead with
that specialized knowledge of submissiveness
and obedience and we the Guides are also here to refine your training through practice.
It may be
helpful to think of the development of a submissive as going through a series
of stages.
Stage 1
In this
stage the individual is not aware that they are actually submissive, they
haven't thought of themselves in those terms yet. There will be signs and
indications of course, they will be aware that they are different from other
people, but they may not realise that there are others like themselves. The
submissiveness may reveal itself through particular types of fantasies, an
attraction to austerity and a rejection of self-indulgence. This individual may
have a tendency to defer to other people, to sit quietly in the background
rather than join in with conversations, or to apologise for themselves a lot.
Stage 2
There comes
a time when the individual begins to recognise their submissive nature, and
starts wanting to do something about it. This might come about through reading,
through watching videos or documentaries. Alternatively someone who has known
them for a while may recognise their submissive traits, introduce them to the
concept, and suggest cautiously that this might be the case for them.
Sometimes
this guidance will be rejected because the potential submissive is not ready to
absorb it, but often it will come as a great relief, a moment of discovery when
things start to fit into place. Often the person pointing this out will be
another submissive or a dominant who has learned to recognised the signs.
Although the news needs to be imparted tactfully because it can be hard to take
in, this is nevertheless a very helpful thing to do because it can save the
individual many years of pain and wasted time derived from not understanding
who they are.
An
individual at this stage is not really submissive yet. They may have fantasies
of submission, but they won't be very reliable at carrying out some of the
basic requirements, such as being obedient and accepting discipline.
Stage 3
Once an individual
has recognised their submissiveness and started to experiment with it, they may
come to realise that they need help to develop. This is where the idea of
submissive training comes in. It is necessary because the ego is immensely
powerful, and it is very difficult for someone to use their own ego to overcome
itself. It really does require someone
from the outside, normally a dominant person, to use the power of their will to
instruct the submissive in what to do, to point out what they may be doing wrong,
and to stretch them with ever more challenging goals.
Although the
initial experience of exploring submissiveness might be very exciting, it
doesn't take long for reaction to the instruction to set in. This this is often
called "topping from the bottom", and is where the submissive tries
to take control of the relationship, often in subtle ways. It is an example of
the ego creeping back in, and an experienced dominant will spot this
immediately and correct it.
There could
be a number of false starts, because finding a good dominant is not an easy
process. In the excitement of the first
encounter it is easy to overlook the dominant's limitations. There needs to be
alignment between the goals of the dominant and the needs of the submissive.
There is a need for a lot of exploration and negotiation before embarking on a
training relationship with a dominant. An individual who is new to
submissiveness won't know a lot about what to look for, so there can be much
trial and error involved.
Assuming
that the new submissive does eventually find a dominant who seems to offer what
is needed, there needs to be a period of discussion and negotiation, arriving
at an agreement as to what that training will consist of. What does the
dominant expect from the submissive? What does the submissive hope to achieve
in their training? The submissive will
have all sorts of ideas and expectations which picked up from the culture, and
it will take a lot of work to modify those into true submissiveness.
Just as it
takes at least three years to gain a professional qualification, you should
think in terms of it taking three years to become well trained as a submissive.
The contents of that training are beyond the scope of this article, but the
ultimate aim will be to embed the fundamental qualities so firmly that external
control is no longer needed.
So for
example, discipline learned with the aid of the sanction of punishment
eventually becomes self-discipline, where the need for any sort of punishment
disappears. Similarly rituals will initially be done erratically if at all, but
when performed diligently over a long period the submissive comes to see their
value, and so carries them out willingly and automatically, rather than needing
external discipline to keep them happening.
So for
example if the dominant requires a submissive to kneel or meditate for a period
every day, it will be quite hard at first to maintain that regular discipline.
The dominant will need to monitor the submissive to ensure compliance, and
enforce obedience through various sanctions. Once the submissive has been
practising discipline like this for an extended period of time this changes
completely. The practice becomes so embedded, comforting and reassuring that
the thought of missing out on it becomes unthinkable.
Another part
of the training will be in openness and honesty. Again at first this can be a
really difficult thing to do and a lot of enforced discipline is required to
make sure that happens. However as training proceeds the submissive realises
the benefits of openness, she becomes so convinced of the value of it that to
be dishonest or to deceive just becomes unthinkable.
Stage 4
There is
another stage, which begins when the training process is complete. At this
point there is really no need for external control, the basic principles of
submissiveness - obedience, discipline, openness, reliability, simplicity - are
fully established and automatic. The submissive will have also acquired a wide
range of skills, and developed their strength and resilience to be able to
carry them out. All significant psychological issues will have been worked
through, and while nobody is totally free from hangups, these no longer cause
issues, they are just dealt within the normal run of events.
Once this
stage is reached the submissive may not need a dominant any more, or may just
need the occasional maintenance session. At this point there are a number of
options. The submissive may choose to become dominant in their own right, and
start to take on other submissives in training. Alternatively they may decide
they need to go even deeper into the submissive process, essentially taking on
a slave role, or exploring deeper levels of masochism.
A third
option, the one that interests me most, is to submit to a higher power, which
is a spiritual process. It's difficult to do this at an earlier stage because
the ego gets in the way, and you need the external discipline to work with. But
once the submissive has reached the stage of not needing external domination, they
can essentially monitor their own submissiveness then the possibility of
submitting to the Field, Gaia or any chosen higher power becomes available.
Higher consciousness
Higher
consciousness arises when you've got a direct and immediate communication with
a higher power.You can only submit to something or someone that you can
communicate with and receive guidance from. This may sound strange if you've
not experienced it, but it really works! You ask for help with a particular
problem and it miraculously arrives, perhaps through another person who just
appears at the right moment with the help you need, or perhaps because the
solution just appears in your mind. Similarly you get guidance as to how you
can serve the higher power by noticing your thoughts, messages from others, or
unlikely coincidences.
I don't know
of a guaranteed way of bringing on this capability, but I do know that the
disciplines of submissiveness, if followed diligently over a long period, make
it more accessible. This is because submissiveness works in large part by
containing the ego, getting it out of the way, and this seems a necessary step
for achieving the higher faculties. I know that meditation works too, but
submissiveness may be quicker!
It seems that higher consciousness can develop
in response to difficult experiences, such as loss, bereavement, accidents or
trauma. This is where physical punishment may be helpful, because it seems that
pain is another method of awakening higher consciousness. If you look at the
lives of the Saints, the practices of gurus, mystics or shamans; these people
often put themselves through a considerable degree of physical hardship and
suffering. At the opposite end, people who've never experienced any difficulty
in their lives can often be remarkably unconscious. Physical discipline and
punishment may be a controlled way of raising consciousness, whereas
experiencing traumas such as a car crashes or terrorist situations will be very
uncontrolled and risky. It may be that people who put themselves deliberately
into dangerous situations are seeking a way of raising their consciousness too.
I think it
can be very useful for a submissive who finds she is starting to access these
levels to continue to work with a Dominant, because the new energies can be
very destabilising, and deceptive at times. It's therefore very useful to have
someone who can introduce checks and balances, while willing to accept that she
now responds to a higher authority than him.
Of course
there's no guarantee that a Dominant who has taken a new submissive from the
untrained stage right through to fully trained will have attained higher
consciousness himself. There isn't the
same requirement for Dominants to control their egos after all. In this
situation a submissive really needs to seek out a different Dom with a matching
level of awareness, because the principles that apply to everyday consciousness
simply do not work at the higher level. It's a totally different way of
operating, and someone without that experience will not be able to help her.
Being the
only one who has higher consciousness can be quite a lonely situation,
particularly as it should involve being able to freely communicate with others
at a telepathic level. Therefore seeking out a group, or community of similar
people is a really good idea. A community led by a Dominant who has attained
higher consciousness, and containing a number of submissives who have reached
that level themselves, perhaps including others who are still in training,
would be a very fruitful combination that would be highly rewarding for all
concerned.
The main
principle in such a community will be to sort out the alignment towards the
higher power, the entity that everyone is ultimately submitting to. It’s the
role of the Dominant to make the initial connection and to work out what the
purpose of the higher power is. Then the submissives in the team align
themselves in the same way, so that everybody is ultimately oriented to the
same higher power. This is necessary because a team that contains people who
are aligned differently will pull itself apart.
I'm talking
about quite a rare situation here. I imagine that such a grouping would be
labelled as a cult by the outside world, and it would certainly be necessary to
guard against going in that direction, but the benefits that could flow as
service to the world at large could be so productive that I feel that it's
worth making the attempt.
Submit to your MASTER, even if he
can't receive it
Initiate the
submissive behaviour of your own accord. At first he may be sceptical or even
scornful, but persist with humility. Examples of submissive acts include
Make a point
of getting up early every morning and kneeling naked by the bedside where he
can see you. Repeat before going to bed.
In the
evening, kneel at his feet rather than sitting beside him on the sofa.
Wear a nothing,
and go bare when in his presence.
Be waiting
at the door when he arrives home, and make a submissive gesture such as a bow
or curtsey.
Initiate
your own monitoring, making a point of recording any behaviour that a dominant
would regard as an infraction. Go through your records with him if he's
willing, and ask for his help in becoming a better person.
Keep your own infractions book
Your infractions
book keeps track of all your lapses in submissiveness, however minor. Even if
you don't receive punishment for your infractions, it is a useful way of
increasing your awareness, and you can always use the self-discipline methods
mentioned in the next section.
it is
important to record un-submissive thoughts, especially negative thoughts about
your husband. They can be fleeting, if you don't make a note of them at the
time they occur you will quickly forget you were having them, but it is good to
have them on record for the future.
if your
husband does come round to disciplining you eventually, it will be good to have
a record of all your past infractions so that these can be worked through
if your
circumstances change and you become free to take up with a Dominant, working
through all these recorded infractions will become important.
The infractions
book have many name in our culture , like MPL- My Punishment Log. MJ- Maintenance Journal, SB- Slut Book
Manage your own discipline
Although
self-inflicted punishment can't replace that given by a dominant, there are
some things you can do to punish yourself, such as self-spanking or
self-whipping with a strip of leather
Use kneeling
or holding a punishment position for a significant time to discipline yourself.
Hold your own ears and keel in-front of a Mirror. Getting out of bed in the
middle of the night to kneel is a way of challenging yourself harder.
Nettles can
sting ferociously, and you may be able to persuade your husband to use them on
you instead of a cane. Otherwise they are easy to use on yourself.
One of the
best implements for self-punishment is the ferula. It is spoon-shaped, made of
heavy rubber, and really stings!
Missing a
meal, taking a cold shower, exercise, picking up litter, or giving away
possessions to a charity shop are other ways of self-discipline.
Remain submissive when provoked
All
relationships build up tension which can lead to rows. There is no excuse for
behaving un-submissively in these situations, so accept responsibility yourself
rather than blaming your husband. It's virtually impossible to continue arguing
with someone who is totally accepting the blame for the situation and humbly
apologising
You can
defuse the situation by kneeling for an hour until things have calmed down and
you can kneel even in front of your children.
Make your
apology - in writing and verbally in front of the whole family.
Accept the
blame and request punishment for your part in the row.
Avoid
blaming your Master, however badly you think he has behaved. Try to see how
your behaviour might have provoked a reaction from him.
Build friendships with female submissive
Most Masters
would be threatened by you having a friendship with a male Dominant, but may be
quite comfortable with you meeting female submissives as a group for friendship and support. I recommend
this if you can set it up, because it helps to remove the isolation, gives you
an opportunity to share advice and support one another with the self-discipline.
Caveat
There is a
limit to how much submission you should give if it's not being valued, or
worse, you are getting abused. My suggestions above are about ways a submissive
can initiate change in her relationship without insisting that her partner
makes the first move, but that doesn't mean I recommend making yourself a
doormat. There comes a point when enough is enough.
We every submissive need punishment
because being Subservient is not learning new things .It is unlearning what we
already learned
That’s is
why punishment necessary in submissive training- I too need correction by
punishment at my age of 52 .
Punishment
is an integral part of the training. It is necessary to challenge the negative
ego traits that can be so destructive to individuals and their relationships. It
is vital to ensuring that the training exercises are carried out as required –
thoroughly, accurately and with maximum effort. Bad habits such as laziness,
slovenliness, carelessness, lateness and suchlike have to be be eliminated, and
sometimes it is necessary to experience a certain amount of pain and
humiliation to achieve this. While corporal punishment is essential to the
proper training of a submissive, this only becomes possible when face to face
work with a dominant begins. Before this starts, punishments such as bar time
and kneeling can be given for infractions.
Having said
that I don't want to try and justify punishment, there are a number of reasons
why it is helpful in a submissive's training. You may wish to reflect on this
list and use it to check your own motivations:
The
relationship between you and your dominant involves an exchange of power and
control. Punishment symbolises this exchange, and provides a sanction that the
dominant can use.
Your
dominant will be instructing you to do things that you find difficult, that
cause your ego to rebel. Trying to use your ego to overcome your ego isn't a
recipe for success, so your dominant needs a sanction to overcome the
resistances your ego will produce. Without such sanctions all your dominant can
do is shame you, shout at you or sack you, none of which are desirable or
productive outcomes.
If
punishment is not overt and physical it tends to emerge in a way which is
covert and emotional. For a relationship this can be much more destructive. Most
submissives are emotionally sensitive, and would far prefer the "short
sharp shock" of pain to being subjected to an extended period of anger or
withdrawal.
Punishment
tends to focus the mind. It makes the experience of submission more real, it is
no longer just a role play or a mental activity done from the safety of a
computer.
Pain
accelerates learning. Externally imposed discipline soon becomes
self-discipline, and external control becomes self-control. This happens much
more quickly if physical punishment is used than if it is merely an academic
exercise.
Punishment
can be humiliating, often intentionally so. Accepting this humiliation will
help you to learn humility.
Submissiveness
is demanding. It may sound good to be obedient and open, but putting the ideas
into practise can be very challenging. The body rebels from holding an
uncomfortable position, basic instincts make us want to resist doing unpleasant
tasks, our addictions make us do things that we know we shouldn't. Punishment
is a very practical means for reinforcing the will and bringing the ego under
control.
Keeping a
record of infractions is an important task for a submissive in training, but
without a punishment for these infractions the exercise will soon start to seem
pointless. You will stop doing it, and the benefit of the discipline will be
lost.
Punishment
can have beneficial psychological effects, if it is done in a caring way with
consent. The pain pathways of the body trigger the release of opioid
neurotransmitters in the brain which can lead to a state of stillness and calm,
but also energy.
Punishment
can leave marks on your body which you should be proud to carry and display.
They act as constant reminder of your state of submission to your dominant, and the nature of the relationship
between you. Your dominant will reinforce the significance of these marks by
having you display them regularly.
When you
routinely experience pain in a manageable way, you learn to overcome it. Yes,
there is a moment of intensely painful feeling as you are struck, but within a
few seconds this subsides. As the pain subsides, the fear of pain starts to
subside too, being replaced by a sense of achievement and inner strength. As you overcome fear of pain, you also start
to overcome fear of other people, they lose their power to hurt you. Soon there
is a lot less to be afraid of, and letting go of fear brings liberation. Pain,
paradoxically, sets you free,
Punishment
will force you to be a responsible adult, to grow up. A good dominant will not
tolerate excuses, and the submissive quickly learns that only the highest
standards are acceptable. There is much
genuine pride to be gained from this, which is excellent for your self-esteem
and a continuous process of learning of your girl child in due course.
A group of
people working together who are not aligned will tend to cancel out each
other’s' efforts, and produce very little useful result. If that same group of
people can be aligned in a common direction much more can be achieved. If you
have ever worked in a team which is out of alignment you will know the sheer
frustration and hopelessness that results. By contrast, working with a group of
people who are in the flow, like a group of jazz musicians improvising
together, can be a joyous and creative experience.
As an
individual you can lack alignment
too - if you have contradictory impulses and conflicting desires, you can end
up achieving very little. The warring factions in your personality tend to
cancel one another out. One of the effects of training as a submissive can be
to highlight these contradictions so that they can be dealt with and resolved.
An example of this can be found in
punishment. You may
have agreed with your dominant that certain infractions merit punishment, that
it is beneficial to help you change and that it will do you good. Still when
the time for punishment arrives and you are faced with the reality of a painful
experience, your ego will do its best to avoid it. This is where the fantasy of
submissiveness meets the reality, and you learn who you are and what you need.
It's only when you've reached that moment of simultaneous wanting and dreading,
complying and resisting, that you discover how conflicted your desires are.
With that discovery opens the
possibility of alignment - firstly with yourself, then with your Dominant, and
potentially with a wider your family and at large the community. With this
alignment comes the experience of inner peace, confidence and strength. You
no longer need to worry, put on a false mask, or make yourself out to be
something you're not. You are moving towards becoming whole and authentic.
Training
As with any
other skill, submissiveness is developed by training. Even those who have a
naturally submissive personality can have this improved by experiencing an
appropriately demanding training regime. It's very hard to be sufficiently
strict with oneself to achieve the necessary development of personality. That’s
why we who are leading as a submissive
Slut lifestyle undergo REVAMPING in every 3 to 5 years interval for a
specific time period which are minimum 6 months
to 3 years till the age of 17 to
70 .
Simply because being Subservient is not learning new things .It is unlearning what we already
learned.
Therefore,
although I've been discussing submitting to Gaia as a goal, in order to achieve
this we first of all have to begin by submitting to an actual physical human, a
dominant-- the dominant are always male, and dominant needs to have an
understanding of what you are aiming to achieve, and to have the humility to
recognise that serving them is just a step along the path for you, and that
eventually they will need to surrender their dominance of you to a higher
power.
This is a
big ask, because training a submissive represents a big commitment in time for
the dominant, and he will want to be sure you are the right person who is ready
and available to receive that training. Ideally the dominant will be on the
same path himself, so in serving him you are supporting him in his work for
Gaia.
Effective
training will change you in ways that cannot be predicted. The dominant you
approach will want to be sure you are psychologically and physically strong enough
to receive his training and benefit from it, rather than suffering adverse
affects. Dominants will have their own process for vetting people who approach
them, which might include asking you to write an application, answer a series
of very searching questions, or complete a series of tasks to demonstrate
obedience.
Below I list
some questions that you should ask yourself before requesting training:
Your
capacity to do the training
Am I
genuinely available to undertake this training? Do I have the time? Am I
sufficiently free from entanglements and responsibilities? Will the other
people in my life support me or oppose me?
Do I have
the commitment? Do I have the will to keep going when feeling resistance,
hostility or demotivation?
Do I have
the psychological capacity? Am I mentally and emotionally stable enough to
handle this? Am I mature enough? Do I have any concerns about my mental state?
Am I
physically fit enough? Have I any medical conditions that could put me at risk?
Have I abused drugs, alcohol, and other substances? Am I addicted to anything,
whether substances or processes?
How will I
cope with rejection? Punishment? Criticism?
Dominants
often have more than one submissive in training at any one time, as well as
being served by those who have completed their training. How will I feel about
this? Will I be able to control my jealousy and envy? How will I feel about
obeying, or being punished by, another submissive, rather than the dominant?
Training
calls for extraordinary levels of openness on the part of the submissive. Am I
capable of being totally honest to the dominant and his other submissive?
Disclosing my deepest secrets, shameful episodes, guilt, insecurities and
flaws? Can I be open about my sexuality? Can I be honest about my negative
thoughts?
Is there
anything in my history that could impede me? Have I committed any criminal
offences or been prosecuted? Have I harmed anyone, created any enemies,
accumulated debts or done anything that may come back to haunt me later?
Answering
yes to any of these last questions does not exclude you from proceeding with
the training - what matters is your openness, honesty, and willingness to
confront difficult issues. On the other hand if you are dishonest at this stage
you are automatically excluding yourself - you will find it much more difficult
to develop genuine submissiveness if you start off on a false basis.
Your
motivation
Reflect on
the following questions:
Why do I
want to do this training? What do I want to get from it? What changes do I want
to make to myself?
What makes
me want to be submissive? How do I know that I'm submissive, what experiences
demonstrate this?
What do I
expect from a dominant?
What am I
prepared to give back? How much time, effort, energy and resources am I willing
to commit to being successful?
How serious
is my wish to discover my true nature? Am I willing to help others do this too?
Your
acceptance
Am I really
willing to be obedient?
To accept
discipline and punishment?
To be open,
honest and truthful?
To sacrifice
and serve?
Am I willing for my lifestyle to be completely
changed by the experience? To take risks and step outside my comfort zone? To
overcome my limiting beliefs and attempt things I never believed I was capable
of doing?
What will submissiveness
training teach me?
In addition
to the changing your attitude to the planet, there are many qualities that can
be developed that will help you become a better person and a better servant to
the world. The precise nature of what you will learn by training as a
submissive will depend on the requirements of whoever is teaching you (your
dominant), however I would expect a good training to give you some or all of
the following accomplishments:
Become the
best you are capable of, through being constantly challenged to develop new
strengths and skills
Increase
your confidence in your ability to cope under pressure in difficult situations
Develop the
capacity to be a reliable supporter of a trusted leader, and know the joy that
comes through giving 100% to a shared purpose
Learn the
benefits of self-discipline and obedience, enabling you to stretch yourself
beyond the limitations of your ego
Become
liberated from shame, guilt and destructive behaviour patterns
Learn to
welcome discipline and correction, as you discover how it helps you to overcome
fear and other limiting emotions.
What makes a good submissive?
The
following are the qualities that make a good submissive. This may seem like an
extensive list, but it is not something which has to be achieved all at once.
It is a set of aspirations which submissive training can support you in
achieving, although the effort required to achieve them will be yours. If you
are not inspired by the thought of achieving many of these qualities then you
are probably not seeking to become a submissive.
Obedience - a fundamental requirement
but not easy to achieve. A dominant's demands are designed to stretch you, to make you transcend
your limitations. Obeying will take you outside of your comfort zone over and
over again, into a state of surrender. One you place yourself in service to
Gaia the tests to your obedience do not become any less, it is just that
knowing what is required of you is not so obvious and requires intuition.
Discipline - a submissive is both
self-disciplined and accepting of external discipline. Discipline takes many
forms, from the mild to the severe depending on the need. Punishments include, but are not
limited to, physical correction that causes pain. This may seem shocking to
some, and tends to get confused with abuse. The difference is that submission
is voluntary, and consent can be withdrawn at any time if discipline tips over
into abuse. Pain is an unavoidable part of being human, but instead of numbing
it with drugs, submissives learn to use it to increase their consciousness,
improve their relationships, and purify the Field around them.
Honesty – the idea of lying to or
withholding information from your dominant or a fellow submissive should be
unthinkable. If you
take your desire to serve and submit seriously you should also avoid any type
of occupation where dishonesty or deception may be required. This is easier
said that done, in a world which is more and more built on falsehood and denial
of the truth.
Openness – a submissive strives to be
open with her body, feelings and her mind. She holds no secrets from her
dominant, her community, her fellow sub missives and other women of the family,
including her daughters. When giving feedback to others she strives to be honest but not
hurtful. She is open and truthful about her emotions, but does not inflict them
on others. She accepts monitoring of her actions, activities and behaviour.
Reliability - a leader must be able
to put complete trust in his submissive and to depend on her totally. Knowing thoroughly her strengths and
weaknesses, capabilities and talents, he knows that if he sets her a task it
will be carried out, however much difficulty and discomfort she may have to
overcome. In order to be reliable she will have to develop other qualities -
courage, resourcefulness, self-control, determination, punctuality, patience,
and many others.
Good-natured - a submissive's aim is
always to make others feel good, through qualities such as gentleness,
compassion, respect, consideration and thoughtfulness towards others. However she will not allow her good
nature to be taken advantage of in ways which would be detrimental to her
dominant. Being obedient to him, she knows how to gently refuse others without
giving offence. She can deal constructively with negative emotions. She can
experience anger without subjecting others to it – she knows that it is her
problem to deal with and no-one else’s. If she experiences fear she either
overcomes it herself or enlists others to help her deal with it. Other words
that describe a submissive include: positive, good-natured, non-critical,
judgemental, even tempered, emotionally controlled, good listener.
Willpower and effort - a submissive
will apply all her effort to a task, be resourceful in overcoming obstacles,
with the aim of producing results not excuses. However she learns to work in a
skilful way which is variously called "going with the flow",
"effortless effort" or in Chinese "Wu Wei". In this way
doing tasks, however mundane, are no longer stressful or feel like hard work,
but become graceful and enjoyable. She knows when to rest from a piece of work
when her concentration is flagging, but because she has resolved her inner
conflicts her productivity is phenomenal.
Skills - a submissive is constantly
striving to improve herself so that she may better fulfil her dominant's
wishes. She treats
her skills and abilities as a way to serve more effectively, and is not driven
by praise, recognition or the need for success. She may not know what will be
required next, so she motivates herself to acquire any skill she can in case it
turns out to be valuable.
Simplicity - simplifying your
lifestyle is not only good practice in submissiveness, it is also good for the
planet and a good preparation for the adaptations we will all have to make to
reduce our environmental impact. And from a submissive perspective an extravagant lifestyle is
inappropriate - you cannot embrace submissiveness while driving round in an
expensive car, taking extravagant holidays, making frequent flights for
personal pleasure, employing a maid or spending quantities of money on clothes
or gadgetry.
Resilience - this includes qualities
such as fitness, tolerance of pain and discomfort, emotional strength,
fearlessness and courage.
Why submissiveness?
Submissiveness is an excellent
grounding for the way we should behave towards our planet. Once we start to make this shift, it
seems that the Gaia responds, and we start to gain access to our higher
consciousness.
However,
turning a desire for submission into it's practical reality is not a simple
task - for most of us our conditioning pulls us in the opposite direction. It
therefore takes training to reorient the personality away from ego-based
selfishness towards humility and service.
Our
community Hallelujah anticipating
difficult times ahead, as the unsustainable nature of the lifestyle most of us
follow is brought home to us ever more clearly. There will be a need for people
to form themselves into teams in order to survive, and a team of submissive
people under the leadership of a suitably insightful dominant will be able to achieve
much that the lone individual cannot. You may also want to consider becoming a
servant-leader or guide and helping others in turn find their submissive
nature.
In our experience
the desire to be submissive and the ability to live submissively at all times
are two very different things. This is where a dominant, and the discipline
that he provides, becomes essential.
